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I think all of my posts are going to have no title unless I come up with a very inspiring title, which is never the case it seems.  I am going to make one change this month.  Well, I'm at least going to try to make a change.  All of my posts so far have been light-hearted (or all that I can remember), and I would like this month to be a little more serious.  So for today, I just want to put something out there.  I'm dating a girl, which is nothing special.  However, it's just that people are, for lack of a better phrase, "getting all up in my business." I currently have quite a few people mad at me for being with her because they don't think we're good together.  I respect their opinion and all.  Actually, I've asked for advice from these people quite a few times.  The problem comes in when I don't accept their advice and use it.  To me, I ask multiple people and see which give the most reasonable advice.  It's not whether I ask and don't care about their opinions, I just don't think their decision was the best decision.  The worst part is not that they are just mad at me, but one or two have also told me point-blank that they wouldn't be my friend if I stayed with her.  I think that's completely ridiculous.  I didn't mean to make them mad, but I think it's my choice whether she makes me happy or not.  To be perfectly honest, our relationship hasn't been the smoothest, it's been quite the bumpy road.  Sometimes it was hard to see the good points, but that's because I focus on the bad too much at times (namely when it's happening).  But once I just have time to think, I can think straight.  Anyway, I just needed to get that out there.